The map
Richard Schwartz developed IFS in the 1980s. Its starting idea is simple: the parts of you that seem like problems are doing a job. They formed in response to something that happened to you.
At the center is what IFS calls the Self, a calm, curious and compassionate place that is not any one of your parts. The work is not to get rid of parts. It is to understand what each one is protecting.
Managers, firefighters and exiles
IFS sorts parts into three kinds. Managers keep you functional: the perfectionist, the people-pleaser, the one who stays in control. Firefighters act fast when pain breaks through: numbing, rage, shutting down. Exiles are the young parts carrying the original hurt, shame or fear.
When you can name which part is speaking, you have a little room to choose how to respond.
How we use it
We teach the IFS map in preparation, so you arrive with words for what you are noticing. During retreat, facilitators help you stay curious about whatever comes up. In integration, it gives you a way to keep listening inside once you are home.
IFS is a map we find useful. It is not a treatment, and we do not present it as one.